I Have a Terrible, Radical, Self-Care Idea. Really. It’s the Worst. (Talk me out of it)

Ok, so, I’ve been talking to my lady friends about what self-care means to us. It’s been concluded that women tend to take care of everyone else before ourselves and have historically been punished for taking the time to do anything for ourselves or setting boundaries in our relationships (seen as selfish, high-maintenance, or, God …